The Lost Power of the Feminine: A Conversation That Changes Everything
Have you ever felt like you were doing everything “right”... and still coming up empty?
You're not alone—and you're not crazy.
In my recent appearance on The Lucid Cafe podcast with Wendy Halley, we dove deep into this question and uncovered something most women instinctively know but rarely say aloud: the world we live in wasn’t built for us.
In this soul-stirring conversation, I share the story behind my latest book, The Way of the Satisfied Woman, and why I believe this moment in history is calling every woman to remember who she truly is—not the over-functioning, emotionally suppressed, endlessly apologizing version of herself she was trained to be, but the intuitive, vibrant, deeply connected feminine force she was born to embody.
👉 Listen to the full episode here
Why Women Are Burnt Out (and What We Can Do About It)
For the first time in history, modern women have more opportunities than ever—to work, to lead, to shape our own futures. But those freedoms often come with a hidden cost: we’re chasing success through a masculine lens. We’ve been taught to strive, to hustle, to compete... and in the process, we've lost touch with the intuitive and relational qualities that make us powerful.
In our conversation, Wendy and I explore how patriarchal systems have diminished femininity over thousands of years—so much so that many women don’t even realize how minimized they’ve become. From being labeled “crazy” for expressing our emotions to having to temper our natural cycles just to be palatable in the workplace, it’s no wonder women feel exhausted, disconnected, and dissatisfied.
But here's the truth: feminine energy isn’t broken—it’s just been buried.
What Is Feminine Power, Really?
During the episode, we discuss what truly defines the feminine. At its core, femininity is intuitive, emotional, relational, and creative. It’s wild, cyclical, deeply feeling, and radically receptive. Not the outdated stereotype of being meek or silent. The feminine is not the quiet one in the back row—it’s the canary in the coal mine, the early warning system that senses misalignment before anyone else.
We also explored the difference between healthy masculine and feminine energies—and how every person contains both. True healing happens when we create inner and outer balance: logic and intuition, structure and flow, direction and receptivity.
This is not about rejecting the masculine. It’s about remembering that the feminine matters just as much.
The Four Keys to a Satisfied Life
I share a foundational teaching from The Way of the Satisfied Woman: the Four Keys to Feminine Satisfaction. These keys form the bedrock of everything I teach and coach around—and they are what every woman needs in order to thrive:
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Safety – the ability to be fully yourself in body, mind, and spirit without fear.
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Security – knowing your needs will be met, by you or those you trust.
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Trust – in yourself, in your intuition, and in those who hold space for you.
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Being Cherished – by the masculine energy in your life, whether that’s a partner or your own inner masculine, who does not abandon you in your pain.
We unpack how these keys are often missing in women’s lives—and what changes when we reclaim them.
Why I Use the Word “Satisfaction”
When I first tried to launch my new business on Facebook using the name The Way of the Satisfied Woman, I got shut down. Why? Because the patriarchy has decided that the only way a woman can be satisfied is sexually.
But satisfaction is so much more than that.
True satisfaction is the pleasure derived from the fulfillment of your wishes and needs. It is multi-dimensional. It’s physical, yes—but also emotional, spiritual, relational. And the feminine deserves to be fulfilled on every level.
Feminine Healing Begins in Community
One of the most powerful parts of our conversation? Naming the reality that men are doing their inner work—in groups—and women are doing theirs alone.
As Wendy and I discuss, feminine healing can’t happen in isolation. It’s time to rebuild sacred sisterhood. To stop doing this alone. To disrupt the old model of individualism and reclaim the relational nature of the feminine.
Because when one woman reclaims her power, she doesn’t just heal herself—she heals her lineage. She creates ripples through her community. And she inspires the masculine to rise and meet her.
Listen Now
This episode of The Lucid Cafe is an invitation to remember who you are, to reconnect with your feminine power, and to give yourself permission to disrupt anything that no longer feels aligned.
If you've been waiting for a sign, this is it.
🎧 Click here to listen to the episode now
And when you're ready to go deeper, explore the full journey inside The Way of the Satisfied Woman at thesatisfiedwoman.com.
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