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if you're interested in Walking the path

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of the satisfied woman which I am hoping

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that you are one of the most important

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factors is to identify for yourself the

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Four Keys of

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satisfaction welcome to the satisfied

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woman podcast I'm your host Alana kyala

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women lean into their femininity

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I cannot be more thrilled to have my

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book out there in the world

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it has been a labor of love a long time

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coming and I have been working a little

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bit quietly behind the scenes putting

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everything together and getting all of

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this ready for you and for us to share

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this movement forward on this path to

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satisfaction so this is a journey it's

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been a journey for me and now I am

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inviting you to join me along it and of

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course hopefully all of the women we can

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possibly um bring along with us I have a

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vision that I hope you'll share with me

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of women everywhere finding more and

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more ways to achieve satisfaction in

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their

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lives so one of the most important

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things to consider in terms of

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satisfaction is the actual term

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satisfaction so let me Define it for you

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and you might hear me Define this often

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in this podcast because I think it's a

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real Touchstone for us to always come

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back to so I've memorized the definition

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and I hope that you will too to keep you

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really focused on what satisfies you

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every single day so satisfaction is

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defined as the pleasure you feel through

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the Fulfillment of your wishes and

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needs ah I'm telling you I feel this

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sense of relief and even release every

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time I talk about that definition it's

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the pleasure you feel through the

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Fulfillment of your wishes and needs

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needs so it's not just about getting

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your basic needs met it's about

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fulfilling your wishes all of the things

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that you want to come true in your life

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and in your world how do we get those

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things done as feminine women we are

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ambitious we are driven we are ready to

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unleash this power in creativity on the

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world I am all for it and it is going to

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be possible when we stay focused on the

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Four Keys so the Four Keys to

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satisfaction feeling this genuine

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pleasure pleasure and getting our wishes

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and needs fulfilled are rooted in the

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4ks which are safety

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security trust in yourself and in others

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around you and being cherished by the

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masculine so these are four simple items

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but what's a little complicated because

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unsurprisingly feminine women are

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complicated is that each of us will

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Define how we feel secure safe trusting

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or trustworthy and cherished a little

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bit differently so I'm going to do my

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best to give you a working definition of

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these four keys because without these

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four keys I promise you satisfaction is

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not possible if you have these four Keys

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settled and really on loock in your life

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then satisfaction is possible so it's

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sort of like step one get four keys

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step two start your path to satisfaction

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all right so the step one is the Four

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Keys safety that seems like a no-brainer

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I get it you know but it's not just

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about locking your doors or turning on

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your ring camera it's about a sense of

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real commitment and um agency in your

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life the the idea that you are safe to

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be who you

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are and that there is some

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accountability and predictability and in

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your life around you like I think about

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you know every day when you return home

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wherever home is for you and I I hope

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that you have a beautiful and safe home

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I mean home is where most of us not all

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of us I recognize that but most of us

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feel a sense of Safety and Security so

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let's think about it in terms of home

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when you return there you know that you

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can just be yourself you know that you

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can relax uh you know that when you lock

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the door that no one is going to open it

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unless they have a key and they are

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supposed to have a key and you can

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really um kind of Let It All Hang Out is

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one way to put it you can just let it

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all hang out that's safety so it's not

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just locking the door it's the ability

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to be yourself in a situation and to

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know that who you are is

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okay now women don't always have that we

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don't always have spaces that are safe

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and so we'll have to adjust

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in spaces that are unsafe either to

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protect ourselves or have protection

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around us or to just stop being in those

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spaces sometimes we will have the luxury

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of no longer attending a space that is

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unsafe or a relationship that is unsafe

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and sometimes we won't and if we don't

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have the luxury to Omit those spaces

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places or people who are unsafe then

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we're going to have to make adjustments

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we're going to have to uh include some

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sort of

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protection so protection can mean uh

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protecting ourselves and that might mean

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just like I think

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of I think of the ways that we might

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protect ourselves from let's say toxic

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people and we can't avoid all toxic

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people boy oh boy I wish we could I

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really do but it is life and sometimes

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we must interact with people who just

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put us on edge make us feel unsafe give

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us the heebie gbes don't feel

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comfortable again I wish we didn't but

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life is life and so when we have to be

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around people who are in some way toxic

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or unsafe for us a prote a protection

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mechanism might be that we really only

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share just basic details or we stay

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really on the surface of conversations

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we don't really go deep with these

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people we don't give them any ammunition

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to come back at us with we just stay

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really let's say platonic and light in

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some ways that is one coping mechanism

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for an unsafe relationship or unsafe um

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people or place or or or situation some

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sort of protection so safety is kind of

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the antidote of it is protection if we

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feel unsafe we need to enlist protection

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protection can also come from outside um

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in in the land of femininity and if we

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were to really stay locked into that

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concept as feminine

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woman safety is what we need and

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protection will come from the masculine

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now that can be our own masculine

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stepping up in that way and kind of

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arming our yourself with a masculine

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mask which I don't recommend Dawning for

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long periods of time but occasionally it

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is required and necessary we can also

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bring it in from the outside and list

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our favorite masculine Partners or

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people around us to offer some

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protection the masculine thrives on

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protection that is one of the foremost

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qualities of the masculine is protection

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so when we need safety let's get

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ourselves some protection and let's

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really cultivate and curate the safe

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places spaces and people that allow us

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to truly just be ourselves Let It All

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Hang Out No Holds Barred the fullness of

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us is acceptable and that is what safety

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feels

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like security is very similar security

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comes with uh a knowing that we are okay

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but it's also that we all we always have

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what we need security is always having

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what we need so yeah security is often

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equated to money or finances as long as

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we have enough money in the bank we have

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that level of security a good retirement

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plan offers security um being in the

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kind of gated community let's say which

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is probably going to be a bigger

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Financial investment offers security um

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security is a level of commitment again

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and predictability that what you need

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will always be there for you so having

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what you need is security having the

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cupboards full and the food that you

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need as a sense of security um having

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the clothes in your closet that you need

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is a sense of security having the the

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things around you be protected and

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always provided for is security the

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counter to that security is being

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provided for or having what you need

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provided for you now of course we can

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provide that for ourselves but again if

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we're we're going to be situated fully

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in the feminine as much as possible

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leaning into that the feminine domain is

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that receivership we are receiving the

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things that we need to feel secure the

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things that we need to feel like we have

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what we need everything is a okay and

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the masculine is what provides it and as

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just as much as protection is like the

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foremost quality of the masculine

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providership is the second foremost

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quality of the masculine the masculine

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really digs and thrives in protection

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and providership now again we also have

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masculine within us as feminine women so

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in the absence of good masculine

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Partners around us friends lovers family

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members whoever those may be in the

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absence of that coming from the outside

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we may need to step that up for

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ourselves on the inside and find ways to

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provide security for ourselves to

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provide what it is that we feel we need

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to live a full and Abundant

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Life the feminine thrives on fullness it

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thrives on abundance one of the key

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phrases of the feminine is more the

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feminine always wants more I don't know

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about you but I am never done I am never

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full I am never satisfied in terms of of

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course I am I mean I wrote the book

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satisfied woman but satisfied in terms

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of like it's never over you know there's

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always going to be more layers more

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levels more to lean into more to invite

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more to explore the feminine is very

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curious in that way so having the Safety

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and Security of having what you need and

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the places and spaces and people is

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what's going to allow you to flourish

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and that Safety and Security is where

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you can organize yourself to get your

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needs and wishes fulfilled to feel that

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sense of

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satisfaction in the absence of Safety

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and Security for the feminine what

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happens really is disregulation of the

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nervous system so anytime there is

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disregulation of the nervous system we

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are thrown off balance we are no longer

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longer thinking with our prefrontal

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cortex we are not in our our full

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empowerment we don't have our full

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agency online we are in detriment and in

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detriment we can't even focus on

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satisfaction we will then be just

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scrambling to try and figure out Safety

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and Security um nothing will be created

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right it's very difficult to be in a

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creative mindset when we're scrambling

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for Safety and Security it's going to be

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very very difficult to regulate our

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emotions and our emotions are so

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important for us as feminine women

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they're our guidepost for how life is

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and it will be very difficult to get

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through the noise of the panic of not

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having enough Safety and Security to

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really feel and access our intuition

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okay this is why these four keys are so

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important right for us to really be in

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our fullness and

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femininity Safety and Security are at

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the basis what you feel provides Safety

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and Security for is going to be

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different an individual and the

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counterpart if you're lacking in those

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is going to be some sort of masculine

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component where we have protectorship

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and providership from the masculine

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either from inside or from outside okay

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so those are the first two those are

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those are basic needs now the next one

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is

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trust trust is not just trusting

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yourself but it's also trusting the

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world around you so trusting in ourself

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that is our own work and it's of

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often it's often done as Shadow work so

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therapy let's be honest therapy therapy

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is important and critical I think for

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everyone I hope that everyone has an

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opportunity to embark on a therapeutic

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practice in some way in a way that works

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for you um but I think that individuals

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like us here in the movement the

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satisfied woman movement we're very

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interested in

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releasing the things that block us from

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feeling satisfied happy joyful peaceful

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creative we want to shed the old

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Paradigm we have all been raised in a

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very patriarchal culture that doesn't

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always have our best interests at heart

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that is going to cause some sort of

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trauma it just is any woman growing up

0:13:50.480,0:13:55.079
in this culture whether it's a micr

0:13:52.639,0:13:58.079
trauma or a macro trauma whether it's a

0:13:55.079,0:14:00.720
singular trauma or a repeated trauma is

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going to have some messaging that's

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already built on the inside of her that

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says that trusting your femininity could

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be unsafe it could be

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harmful we have a culture that values

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logic and reason over emotions and

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intuition and I know too many

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women who downplay second guess or

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squash all together their emotions and

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intuition in favor of what they think is

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better which is logic and reason it is

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not better it is just different it is

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just yet another tool that we have in

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the decision- making and living process

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but for the feminine we flourish when we

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connect to our emotions and intuition

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when we don't have that we don't trust

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ourselves now you'll never guess what we

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need in order to bring forward our

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emotions and intuition yep you got it we

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need to have a sense of Safety and

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Security we need to know if those

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emotions and intuition are going to be

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honored by ourselves and then by

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extension the people around us so

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trusting oursel first is an inside job

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it's internal work uh to do that therapy

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and Shadow work practices can be very

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helpful tapping into our intuition can

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start simply by being in a quiet

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room asking ourselves what do we need

0:15:20.399,0:15:28.199
next what do we need now and tuning in

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to that still small voice inside can

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start as easily is that but it will be

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very difficult here if we don't have

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Safety and Security present and if we

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don't have a level of established trust

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with ourselves to begin with now once we

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trust ourselves it's imperative that we

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trust the world around us and whether

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that's the people around us our

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situation our circumstance our career

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anything a level of trust goes a

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tremendously long way in allowing us to

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flourish and Thrive as satisfied women

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so we've got to have trust in our world

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if you have Partners people places

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spaces that are not trustworthy for you

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it's time to reassess it's time to

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reassess and I understand that there

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won't always be opportunities to hit the

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eject button on some of those places

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people and spaces but where there are

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opportunities to hit eject if there is

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not trust it just needs to end it's just

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over there's no it's very difficult to

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rebuild trust it can be rebuilt I

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certainly have had experience in

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overcoming

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um breaches of trust or betrayal as they

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were trust between two

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people is defined as behavior that

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always takes the other person and or the

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partnership between those two people in

0:16:45.079,0:16:52.440
mind so you know someone or something is

0:16:49.000,0:16:55.720
trustworthy when that relationship that

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person that partner always keeps your

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highest good in mind as they act and if

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they keep your highest good in mind as

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they act if they've always got your back

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that is a trustworthy person when they

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don't maybe they have enough trust built

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with you that you can repair sometimes

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the breach of trust will be so egregious

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that repair is not possible so be

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receptive to this be receptive to firing

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your friends if they are untrustworthy

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firing places or spaces that are

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untrustworthy or navigating very

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carefully places or relationships you

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need to navigate

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uh if they are

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untrustworthy all right our

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last key of the Four Keys is being

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cherished by the

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masculine now remember we all have

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masculine inside of us so this could be

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our own internal masculine honoring our

0:17:47.400,0:17:53.080
own internal feminine and the most key

0:17:49.799,0:17:55.799
way that this is done is that the

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masculine cherishes the feminine by

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never leaving her alone in her pain

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so when the feminine is experiencing an

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emotional or intuitive hit that becomes

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very critically important for the

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masculine it

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supersedes the masculine Intuition or

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emotions it takes precedence over any

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linear direction or decision making that

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is happening by the masculine there is

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no overriding squashing or mitigating by

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the masculine of the Intuition or the

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emotions when we Center intuition and

0:18:32.720,0:18:36.840
emotions of the feminine that is

0:18:34.799,0:18:39.280
cherishing and when we never leave the

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feminine alone in her pain that is

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cherishing to leave someone alone in

0:18:41.320,0:18:45.840
their pain essentially means to

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just ignore what they're going through

0:18:45.840,0:18:49.840
to not take it seriously to say oh you

0:18:47.600,0:18:52.480
know buck up little camper or why are

0:18:49.840,0:18:57.200
you being so emotional or you're acting

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crazy I don't know a single woman today

0:18:57.200,0:19:01.640
that hasn't been called crazy even by

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someone that loves

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her I don't know a woman today that

0:19:04.320,0:19:08.720
hasn't really been called emotional

0:19:05.960,0:19:12.600
you're too emotional think

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logically those are tools that the

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masculine uses to oppress the feminine

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override her

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judgment and destabilize her Center it

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will put us in a disregulated state in

0:19:24.760,0:19:29.559
our nervous system and remember when

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we're disregulated in our nervous system

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we can't actually act in our best

0:19:32.559,0:19:36.760
interest so being cherished by the

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masculine either by our own internal

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masculine or the masculine around us is

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how we can stay honoring our emotions

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and our intuition which are so

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critically important for the

0:19:46.200,0:19:50.640
feminine now you'll notice with these

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four keys and and in this podcast I talk

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a lot about the Dynamics between

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masculine and feminine and we the

0:19:55.440,0:20:01.480
reality is um that the masculine is

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present it's present relationships are

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present they are real every single day

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none of us lives in a vacuum look I

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would love if we could just do all of

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this all by ourselves but we can't and I

0:20:12.240,0:20:17.640
don't recommend it we need partnership

0:20:15.640,0:20:20.440
as feminine women we need collaboration

0:20:17.640,0:20:23.360
we need Community we need communication

0:20:20.440,0:20:25.120
we need others around us truly to thrive

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and so it is going to be up to us to

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some extent until this movement gets

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bigger and other people get on board to

0:20:29.400,0:20:34.600
heavily

0:20:30.679,0:20:38.240
curate our life so that these four keys

0:20:34.600,0:20:40.280
are present to find the masculine that

0:20:38.240,0:20:42.559
cherishes us and to brush up our own

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internal masculine so we cherish our

0:20:42.559,0:20:48.559
feminine to establish methods of trust

0:20:46.559,0:20:51.080
in ourselves but to make sure we're

0:20:48.559,0:20:51.960
surrounded by trustworthy places spaces

0:20:51.080,0:20:55.039
and

0:20:51.960,0:20:57.120
people to ensure our own Safety and

0:20:55.039,0:20:59.280
Security meaning we have everything that

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we need to thrive

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and that we can always be

0:21:01.520,0:21:08.080
ourselves that we are protected and

0:21:04.320,0:21:10.320
provided for in the best way possible

0:21:08.080,0:21:12.840
when those four keys are there that is

0:21:10.320,0:21:15.679
when the pth of satisfaction begins that

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is when we have what we need in order to

0:21:15.679,0:21:21.480
really start working on those wishes and

0:21:18.120,0:21:23.679
needs and getting them fulfilled we are

0:21:21.480,0:21:26.799
unstoppable when we have the Four Keys

0:21:23.679,0:21:29.000
we are untameable even more fun when we

0:21:26.799,0:21:31.600
have the Four Keys getting our wishes

0:21:29.000,0:21:34.080
and needs fulfilled is also of benefit

0:21:31.600,0:21:37.279
to all of those around us when we Thrive

0:21:34.080,0:21:39.799
ladies everyone around us thrives that's

0:21:37.279,0:21:42.120
the magic of femininity is it doesn't

0:21:39.799,0:21:45.960
leave anyone

0:21:42.120,0:21:47.080
behind so from my heart to yours from my

0:21:45.960,0:21:51.080
soul to

0:21:47.080,0:21:55.919
yours I wish you these four keys in

0:21:51.080,0:21:58.919
Earnest and I wish you uh a a very safe

0:21:55.919,0:22:00.600
secure trustworthy and cherished Journey

0:21:58.919,0:22:02.640
on your pathway to

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satisfaction let me know how else I

0:22:02.640,0:22:07.440
might be of service to you and what else

0:22:04.440,0:22:10.039
I can do to support you in this movement

0:22:07.440,0:22:12.360
and it is a movement and it starts by

0:22:10.039,0:22:13.919
you joining me at the satisfied

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woman.com

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Empower me that is the special page I've

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created for you all my podcast listeners

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where you can find all the goodies that

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you need to start with me on this

0:22:21.600,0:22:26.960
movement they're they're they're free

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they're there why not um and if you

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haven't yet read my book make sure you

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do so the way of the satisfied woman and

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my friend if you have read it please

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please pass it along to another woman

0:22:36.279,0:22:42.600
who might need it and until next time

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please stay satisfied